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PSA: This is a rant. If you’re not looking to read my ramblings, I won’t be offended. Carry on.
I’m over it. I’m really just exhausted by the whole financial, emotional, and time suck that is medicine.
Last weekend my best friends from college all went on a trip and yet again I was stuck home, working a stupid black weekend for OBGYN. I’ve been a 3rd year for 10 months. There’s no way I could afford the plane ticket much less the hotel stay with away rotations looming. I just got engaged but my fiancé and I decided it’s better not to have a wedding when we’re $300,000 in debt with no income. I can’t even grab a beer at a bar without feeling guilty because money is so tight.
Some nights I can’t sleep. I keep reliving the family meeting we had with a 15 year old girl where we told mom we needed to “Get Palliative on board” because the osteosarcoma was no longer responding to chemo. Driving by a soccer league I just see a field of kids ready to die at the hands of an endless parade of illness and diseases, each sadder then the last.
Whatever hobbies I had before med school are gone. Fishing, traveling, woodworking...where does any of that fit into 12 hour days six days a week plus studying? Where does the money come from? I don’t even have friends to do any of these things with anyway. They’ve all moved on after 3 years of “not this weekend man, I’m working/studying.”
And none of this gets any better. A year from now I’ll graduate from a broke exhausted med student to a broke exhausted resident, working even worse hours at an even harder job.
Sorry for the vent. I’m usually a really happy guy. I guess I’d rather rant on here than subject some unsuspecting family member to my incoherent ramblings. I still love medicine more than anything, I just wish I didn’t have to lose everything else about myself to study it.
I’m over it. I’m really just exhausted by the whole financial, emotional, and time suck that is medicine.
Last weekend my best friends from college all went on a trip and yet again I was stuck home, working a stupid black weekend for OBGYN. I’ve been a 3rd year for 10 months. There’s no way I could afford the plane ticket much less the hotel stay with away rotations looming. I just got engaged but my fiancé and I decided it’s better not to have a wedding when we’re $300,000 in debt with no income. I can’t even grab a beer at a bar without feeling guilty because money is so tight.
Some nights I can’t sleep. I keep reliving the family meeting we had with a 15 year old girl where we told mom we needed to “Get Palliative on board” because the osteosarcoma was no longer responding to chemo. Driving by a soccer league I just see a field of kids ready to die at the hands of an endless parade of illness and diseases, each sadder then the last.
Whatever hobbies I had before med school are gone. Fishing, traveling, woodworking...where does any of that fit into 12 hour days six days a week plus studying? Where does the money come from? I don’t even have friends to do any of these things with anyway. They’ve all moved on after 3 years of “not this weekend man, I’m working/studying.”
And none of this gets any better. A year from now I’ll graduate from a broke exhausted med student to a broke exhausted resident, working even worse hours at an even harder job.
Sorry for the vent. I’m usually a really happy guy. I guess I’d rather rant on here than subject some unsuspecting family member to my incoherent ramblings. I still love medicine more than anything, I just wish I didn’t have to lose everything else about myself to study it.