- Joined
- Oct 12, 2005
- Messages
- 1,148
- Reaction score
- 266
Maybe I'm overthinking this, but I'll ask anyway.
I got my first interview. Yay, rejoice, etc. Ok, now comes reality. With this interview being the personal test to gain admission, I have to be on top of my game at all times. This includes proper addressing. I grew up mainly in the South, so I was raised saying yes ma'am, no ma'am, etc. I figured that it would always be good to be polite. However, my recent years away from the South has taught me that sometimes it makes you look stupid or naive. When I worked at an internship, my co-workers were amused at me with these formalities. When I addressed my supervisor this way, he said to not say that, because it made him feel old.
I've always been taught to be polite, to respect those older and more knowledgeable than me. However, I don't also want to look like a dolt by spitting out such formalities that seem archaic in several parts of the US. Anyone with any interview experience have any advice on this?
Oh yeah another unrelated thing - hair gel is ok in an interview, right?
I got my first interview. Yay, rejoice, etc. Ok, now comes reality. With this interview being the personal test to gain admission, I have to be on top of my game at all times. This includes proper addressing. I grew up mainly in the South, so I was raised saying yes ma'am, no ma'am, etc. I figured that it would always be good to be polite. However, my recent years away from the South has taught me that sometimes it makes you look stupid or naive. When I worked at an internship, my co-workers were amused at me with these formalities. When I addressed my supervisor this way, he said to not say that, because it made him feel old.
I've always been taught to be polite, to respect those older and more knowledgeable than me. However, I don't also want to look like a dolt by spitting out such formalities that seem archaic in several parts of the US. Anyone with any interview experience have any advice on this?
Oh yeah another unrelated thing - hair gel is ok in an interview, right?