Here's the deal: I have tried to get my PhD in Clinical Psychology 3 times. It's still what I really want to do, but I feel guilty trying again. I am 26, just got my first "real" job a year ago and am about to get married. My fiance is 31 and already makes quite a bit more than me. We jut bought our first home in September. We delayed buying a house/moving in together for a while in case I was going to have to move for my PhD and I also didn't have any money while doing my Master's. I know that if I go back to school again, I won't make much for quite a while and even if I am able to do my degree here in our hometown, I know that we may have to move later on for a fellowship/job/etc. Is it selfish of me to want to keep trying to do this? Should I just suck it up ad try to find something else to do with my life?