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It was a long-lost childhood dream, but I'm not so sure if it's a practical choice.
I've been through an emotional rollercoaster. I quit college in order to get out of my parents' home because I was abused, even though they were paying for my college. I just couldn't stand it anymore. It's been about a year that I've been out, working a minimum wage job, being on food stamps, etc. I am pregnant now, and will hopefully go back to college next year because now I can fill out the FAFSA without needing parental information.
I have a spouse who will be starting a career pretty soon, and he can't really move around the country. I heard that if someone wants to be a doctor, they have to apply to lots of medical schools throughout the country, but I cannot do that because of my obligations to my family. I will have a child soon and need that child to grow up in a family.
I just want to know if any of you faced similar situations. I would love to be pre-med, but honestly I'm just not sure how practical it is if I have to stay within my state. Maybe I should still do the pre-med requirements, but have a major which can also turn into a career? Should I put medicine as just something I may or may not do, but still do the pre-med classes just in case? My GPA also isn't that great (3.3) because I failed a class because I couldn't concentrate due to my harsh environment with my parents.
Should I just become a nurse or something? I'm also not sure what I really want to be other than a doctor. Maybe teaching? Or human resources? I don't even know.
Any of you have experience being pre-med while you have a small child or children and a spouse who has a career?
I've been through an emotional rollercoaster. I quit college in order to get out of my parents' home because I was abused, even though they were paying for my college. I just couldn't stand it anymore. It's been about a year that I've been out, working a minimum wage job, being on food stamps, etc. I am pregnant now, and will hopefully go back to college next year because now I can fill out the FAFSA without needing parental information.
I have a spouse who will be starting a career pretty soon, and he can't really move around the country. I heard that if someone wants to be a doctor, they have to apply to lots of medical schools throughout the country, but I cannot do that because of my obligations to my family. I will have a child soon and need that child to grow up in a family.
I just want to know if any of you faced similar situations. I would love to be pre-med, but honestly I'm just not sure how practical it is if I have to stay within my state. Maybe I should still do the pre-med requirements, but have a major which can also turn into a career? Should I put medicine as just something I may or may not do, but still do the pre-med classes just in case? My GPA also isn't that great (3.3) because I failed a class because I couldn't concentrate due to my harsh environment with my parents.
Should I just become a nurse or something? I'm also not sure what I really want to be other than a doctor. Maybe teaching? Or human resources? I don't even know.
Any of you have experience being pre-med while you have a small child or children and a spouse who has a career?