Brief update!
My partner just got his first job offer! Full time job just outside of the city in a practice that he thought was fantastic. So no worries anymore! Thank you for all of the recommendations, and to those of you planning to go through this process yourselves soon, here are a few pieces of advice:
1. Use all of your connections and resources - SDN, reddit, and in-person contacts from medical school and residency (I guess I count as one of those since one of the interviews was a recommendation from my new boss . . .) have all led to interviews. If you're going to search in SF, don't expect a google search to show you the way barring a few recruiters. It seems that many practices in SF simply don't post jobs publicly.
2. Ignore people who tell you not to move to a particular area (in this case, SF). If you are committed to moving to a particular area, instead be dogged in your pursuit of a position. Always be open to changing your plans if life is a disaster, but work for your initial goal first. Many people who have never even lived in SF tried to dissuade us (even in this post!), and it's ok to remind them that you did not ask them for advice on where to live but "hey do you have any leads on jobs? I'm looking for a job, remember? Not advice on where to live!"
3. Be open to positions that are part time or per diem if you are committed to a particular location. My partner was able to find a benefitted, full time position, but that may not be possible for everyone, particularly if you have no contacts in the area. Do your best. If someone has a position that isn't great for you, still take the time and interview for it. That person may have another connection. My partner interviewed for a position an hour and a half outside of the city, and while it wasn't perfect, the recruiter met with him and had other recommendations for prospects within the physician group.
Again, thank you thank you to everyone in the thread who took a moment to provide leads insofar as finding a job in SF.
And, as alluded to in point 2, those of you who say we shouldn't move to SF because we'll never find a job and everything is expensive and life will be ****ty and the streets smell like pee and also did you know that SF is EXPENSIVE and BLAHHHHHH BLAHHHHHH BLAHHHHHH . . . Well, I have just one thing to say:
Neener neener neener, you're a big fat weiner.
Feel free to PM if you are thinking of moving to the Bay Area and looking for a job.