last quarter of ochem lab, the most difficult class on campus, my lab partner disappears for two weeks (the two weeks prior to finals week). This course was intense, and during that period we were supposed to write a proposal, research how to make a product, switch off doing experiments (my lab period was MW, his was TTh), and do a final presentation the friday before finals week. My partner shows up the day before our presentation, tells me his mom died, puts his name on the project (I fall for it), and we do the presentation....
I did horribly on my finals because I was in the lab M-Th every day for the last two weeks of the quarter from 12-6 doing experiments. And that time doesn't include all the research and report-writing and presentation preparing.
I graduated last year. He did too. Both our families ended up going to the same restaurant for graduation dinners. I met his mom.
I started out writing this post to say "suck it up, there are others in worse conditions," but now I guess I'm just giving another sorry story.
humph.