I feel for you. Although my husband says he is supportive of me, I can tell he has some fears about what life and finances will be like when I go to school. Just studying for the MCAT and working full time was hard enough on us, so I can't blame him. I think we need to get our spouses involved as much as possible with our schooling, so they feel involved. I am going to have my spouse tour the school with me, etc. I think they need some reassurance that we are going to do our best in managing time with them while we are in school. If I put myself in his shoes, I would also feel the same. I am trying to be sensitive to that, instead of resenting him for not being quite as excited as I am. It's a tough subject!