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Okay so I have been trying to work this through, but the status of the relationship with my PI is making me believe that a LOR from this experience will only suffer, plus my sanity. Brief breakdown: I am asked to complete task X within two weeks, there are specific locations for completed tasks, most things are just put in their place rather than being emailed about it. Nonetheless, I send email notifications about everything that is completed, and where to find them. On day 3-5 after the assignment, I complete the task, notify my PI of its completion and location, usually get a response "great! thanks so much, appreciate it. Then around day 16/17 days after given the assignment, past the deadline date for said task, I get an email:
"WhittyPsyche, where is assignment X, I do not see it, please have this completed by the time you come in next week, I need assignment X in order to do YZ follow ups. Please get back to me promptly."
My response is then, "Hi, assignment X is in place A, as you requested, btw assignment Y has since been completed and is in place B (Usually self-titled folders, or a place they are always put). Let me know if you still cannot find assignment X. Or if you would like it somewhere else in the future"
"Hi again, yes it is in place A, no don't move it that is the right place. This was just a simple miscommunication. Thank you"
Me: *thinking* uhh I don't know how this is a miscommunication...okay. It's always a "miscommunication", rather than I did not look in the place I specifically asked you to put it, or didn't look at all before firing off an email saying "work on this now" when it is already completed.
This has happened about 5-6 times since this semester started.
I always get things done on time though usually early, when someone leaves (3 since I've been here, 1 just gave notice) I've taken on their projects and completed them faster than that person had been taking to just begin the task. Once my work is received I cannot tell you how much gratitude is expressed by the PI, always comments that far better than expected and never needs edits.
Sorry this turned into a vent. I am applying this upcoming cycle, so I am weary about leaving, especially as the L.M. I had planned on staying through my gap year as well. I have a manuscript in submission not very high on author list, another in writing that should be done in March, 3rd author and the only writer, and another in writing that will be ready in April/May that I'm 2nd author and the writer. So obviously I want to stay, but I am getting so frustrated by the passive aggressiveness, and the stress of others leaving, leaving me wearing too many hats.
Thanks for any input!
"WhittyPsyche, where is assignment X, I do not see it, please have this completed by the time you come in next week, I need assignment X in order to do YZ follow ups. Please get back to me promptly."
My response is then, "Hi, assignment X is in place A, as you requested, btw assignment Y has since been completed and is in place B (Usually self-titled folders, or a place they are always put). Let me know if you still cannot find assignment X. Or if you would like it somewhere else in the future"
"Hi again, yes it is in place A, no don't move it that is the right place. This was just a simple miscommunication. Thank you"
Me: *thinking* uhh I don't know how this is a miscommunication...okay. It's always a "miscommunication", rather than I did not look in the place I specifically asked you to put it, or didn't look at all before firing off an email saying "work on this now" when it is already completed.
This has happened about 5-6 times since this semester started.
I always get things done on time though usually early, when someone leaves (3 since I've been here, 1 just gave notice) I've taken on their projects and completed them faster than that person had been taking to just begin the task. Once my work is received I cannot tell you how much gratitude is expressed by the PI, always comments that far better than expected and never needs edits.
Sorry this turned into a vent. I am applying this upcoming cycle, so I am weary about leaving, especially as the L.M. I had planned on staying through my gap year as well. I have a manuscript in submission not very high on author list, another in writing that should be done in March, 3rd author and the only writer, and another in writing that will be ready in April/May that I'm 2nd author and the writer. So obviously I want to stay, but I am getting so frustrated by the passive aggressiveness, and the stress of others leaving, leaving me wearing too many hats.
Thanks for any input!