Hello everyone!
I'm at a lost, and I really need advise. I am graduating from IM residency in 2018. During the past 2 years in residency, I realized I am starting to grow more and more upset about my decision. For internal medicine, visits are usually longer. There is a lot of talking and asking patients about their symptoms. If the visits are short, I am afraid that I would miss something in their labs or paperwork.
Prior to medical school, I did a lot of ophthalmology research. I did not have any direct clinical experience. When I shadow ophthalmologist, I realized that I really like the quick decision making and short clinic visits. I like the procedures, and I wish I can work more with my hands. In IM, I am only able to talk to patients.
I chose to enter internal medicine as a naive medical student thinking that as a generalist I would be able to do all type of medicine. What I soon realized is that as a generalist, I was never able to do anything WELL.
My fiance who is an ophthalmologist told me that the grass is gray every where. Your love for your work is what you make of it; "you tell yourself you love it and it happens." He said that concierge medicine may be better than ophthalmology because you don't have to rush through visits. It sounds appealing, but at the end of the day, I'd still be a general internist. It would still mean long, drawn out initial clinic visits with a lot of talking. It is hard for me to like the subspecialities of IM: cardiology is impossible to match into and chest pain doesn't get my juices going, GI is a lot more poop (and talking about poop) than I cannot handle, Endo is looking at labs but no procedures, Rheum is interesting but a lot of talking, and Heme/Onc is very sad.
I have tried to tell myself I love Internal Medicine, but when something bad happens, my house of cards fall.
I guess my question is...when do you know when to quit? Are the things I dislike in internal medicine true about all of medicine as a whole? Is a job ultimately a job? Am I being naive about changing to another field after residency? Can you truly force yourself to like something?
Thanks for your help!
I'm at a lost, and I really need advise. I am graduating from IM residency in 2018. During the past 2 years in residency, I realized I am starting to grow more and more upset about my decision. For internal medicine, visits are usually longer. There is a lot of talking and asking patients about their symptoms. If the visits are short, I am afraid that I would miss something in their labs or paperwork.
Prior to medical school, I did a lot of ophthalmology research. I did not have any direct clinical experience. When I shadow ophthalmologist, I realized that I really like the quick decision making and short clinic visits. I like the procedures, and I wish I can work more with my hands. In IM, I am only able to talk to patients.
I chose to enter internal medicine as a naive medical student thinking that as a generalist I would be able to do all type of medicine. What I soon realized is that as a generalist, I was never able to do anything WELL.
My fiance who is an ophthalmologist told me that the grass is gray every where. Your love for your work is what you make of it; "you tell yourself you love it and it happens." He said that concierge medicine may be better than ophthalmology because you don't have to rush through visits. It sounds appealing, but at the end of the day, I'd still be a general internist. It would still mean long, drawn out initial clinic visits with a lot of talking. It is hard for me to like the subspecialities of IM: cardiology is impossible to match into and chest pain doesn't get my juices going, GI is a lot more poop (and talking about poop) than I cannot handle, Endo is looking at labs but no procedures, Rheum is interesting but a lot of talking, and Heme/Onc is very sad.
I have tried to tell myself I love Internal Medicine, but when something bad happens, my house of cards fall.
I guess my question is...when do you know when to quit? Are the things I dislike in internal medicine true about all of medicine as a whole? Is a job ultimately a job? Am I being naive about changing to another field after residency? Can you truly force yourself to like something?
Thanks for your help!
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