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I am currently engaged to a med school student. We have been togethor for about a year and a half now. He is about to enter his third year of school, which means a move for the both of us. We are relocating to a much smaller town that offers him terrific opportunities. Since I am not yet attending school full time, I have no qualms about moving with him. In fact, I am looking forward to it. Still, I continue to find myself worrying about something that I hope some of you might be able to offer me some advice with. My fiancee is of Indian orgin, and I am not. His parent's have expressed their disapproval of our being togethor in the past, but seem to be coming to terms with our union. They have even stated that they would prefer for us to get married sooner than later. I am in agreement with them for several reasons. While my fiancee has made it very clear that he prefers to wait until the latter half of his fourth year. I am not anticipating having a grand wedding. In fact, on our budget, I was thinking more along the lines of Las Vegas, lol. And have no problem with our putting off our honeymoon until he can find the time. I cannot help but worry that I might see him through his trials in medical school, and end up getting dumped for a "better deal". Or possibly, the Indian woman his parents would prefer him to marry. Since becoming engaged to him, I have heard several stories of these sorts of things happening to women in my current situation. Just wondering if anyone out there might have a few words of advice on this subject. Thank you
I am currently engaged to a med school student. We have been togethor for about a year and a half now. He is about to enter his third year of school, which means a move for the both of us. We are relocating to a much smaller town that offers him terrific opportunities. Since I am not yet attending school full time, I have no qualms about moving with him. In fact, I am looking forward to it. Still, I continue to find myself worrying about something that I hope some of you might be able to offer me some advice with. My fiancee is of Indian orgin, and I am not. His parent's have expressed their disapproval of our being togethor in the past, but seem to be coming to terms with our union. They have even stated that they would prefer for us to get married sooner than later. I am in agreement with them for several reasons. While my fiancee has made it very clear that he prefers to wait until the latter half of his fourth year. I am not anticipating having a grand wedding. In fact, on our budget, I was thinking more along the lines of Las Vegas, lol. And have no problem with our putting off our honeymoon until he can find the time. I cannot help but worry that I might see him through his trials in medical school, and end up getting dumped for a "better deal". Or possibly, the Indian woman his parents would prefer him to marry. Since becoming engaged to him, I have heard several stories of these sorts of things happening to women in my current situation. Just wondering if anyone out there might have a few words of advice on this subject. Thank you