Is it frowned upon to get a LOR from a family member even if you have shadowed them extensively?
What is wrong with a letter from the family? Surely, we must be able to find some sort of compromise on this issue.Seriously? An LOR from a family member is absolutely not acceptable, no matter how much you have shadowed them.
Nooo. I would look into shadowing some other physicians. I'm not sure how good it would look if most of your shadowing was with a relative.
Come on dude. Do what other premeds in your situation are doing and have your dad ask his buddy to write one for you.
What is wrong with a letter from the family? Surely, we must be able to find some sort of compromise on this issue.
1) Any comments about how "great" the candidate is will be met with extreme skepticism and eye rolls from the admission committees. Do you really think a family member is likely to say that someone is a mediocre student and not fit to be a doctor? I don't think so (and I am not implying that the original poster is any of those things).
2) If the letter of recommendation is lukewarm or worse, the applicant is completely screwed. There is no way around it. If you own family isn't excited about the candidacy of one of their own, why should an adcom? (Sometimes a single lukewarm LOR from a professor, while detrimental, might not be fatal).
If we do, you're toast.Can they find out if say the letter did not mention s/he was your aunt/uncle/cousin/extended family?
Is it frowned upon to get a LOR from a family member even if you have shadowed them extensively?
Mam, after reviewing your file, unfortunately we will have to reject your application on the basis of your child's LOR. It seems that you are such a great mom, the pip squeak wants you all to himself. Unfortunately when we get letter's like this and the letter writer recommends that you not be admitted, it's out of our hands. Your son has spoken.Oh yes. I once read a LOR from an applicant's 12 year old son. I am NOT making this up. The mom thought that by showing what a great mom she was, that it would ean she'd be a great doctor.
Reject!