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I'm looking for some advice. I am married and have a 9 month old son. I have been dragging my family around for the last few years with my military assignments, and I am leaving active duty to attend medical school.
My wife is from Texas and is very close with her family. Our original plan was to attend medical school in Texas so that she can have a support system while I'm in school. I applied to most of the programs in Texas and a few top tier programs elsewhere.
I was only accepted to one school in Texas. It's a middle of the road state school.
I also received an interview at Harvard and am waiting to hear back from them. Now I don't want to put the cart before the horse, but the interview went very well from my perspective and the possibility of not going back to Texas has sparked a lot of discussion in my house.
My wife realizes the magnitude of opportunity that Harvard represents, and she is very supportive of me. She is willing to move to Boston should the opportunity arise. Because she is sacrificing the opportunity to be with her family while I am in school, she is making several requests, which I think are more than fair.
One of the requests she has made is that I do everything in my power to ensure that I am matched to a Texas residency program, or at least a residency program within driving distance to Texas. This obviously narrows the field of residencies I can compete for and eliminates many of the top residency programs in various fields.
My question is twofold. Firstly, is it even feasible that I can guarantee a match in Texas. Secondly, is Harvard worth sticking myself in a lesser residency program, or should I attend the Texas state school, and compete for better residencies?
I know most of you are saying "woah buddy, just because you got an interview, doesn't mean you're getting into Harvard." Believe me, I fully realize that and this might all be a moot point, but I'm just trying to do some planning should that acceptance letter arrive. I'd really appreciate anyone's input.
My wife is from Texas and is very close with her family. Our original plan was to attend medical school in Texas so that she can have a support system while I'm in school. I applied to most of the programs in Texas and a few top tier programs elsewhere.
I was only accepted to one school in Texas. It's a middle of the road state school.
I also received an interview at Harvard and am waiting to hear back from them. Now I don't want to put the cart before the horse, but the interview went very well from my perspective and the possibility of not going back to Texas has sparked a lot of discussion in my house.
My wife realizes the magnitude of opportunity that Harvard represents, and she is very supportive of me. She is willing to move to Boston should the opportunity arise. Because she is sacrificing the opportunity to be with her family while I am in school, she is making several requests, which I think are more than fair.
One of the requests she has made is that I do everything in my power to ensure that I am matched to a Texas residency program, or at least a residency program within driving distance to Texas. This obviously narrows the field of residencies I can compete for and eliminates many of the top residency programs in various fields.
My question is twofold. Firstly, is it even feasible that I can guarantee a match in Texas. Secondly, is Harvard worth sticking myself in a lesser residency program, or should I attend the Texas state school, and compete for better residencies?
I know most of you are saying "woah buddy, just because you got an interview, doesn't mean you're getting into Harvard." Believe me, I fully realize that and this might all be a moot point, but I'm just trying to do some planning should that acceptance letter arrive. I'd really appreciate anyone's input.