I only have one semester of school under my belt, but it went pretty well. The best advice is for your spouse to find something to do (work, volunteer, etc.) or he/she will go insane. I was lucky my wife started her first teaching position in August so she has been just as busy as me. Although she doesn't make much, it's enough to help with our expenses and limit the amount of loans I took out this year. Finally, live on a budget! It will help prevent you from spending too much, and get the most out of your loans.