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Yeah, I know this wasn't what the thread was supposed to be about. But if I believe our society should return to standards of traditional morality, I've got to say something. The existence and effectiveness of those standards depends on there being a shared, public sense of disapproval over violations of them.What you're saying, although it might be true in general, is completely irrelevant to the case at hand. This woman is pregnant. This cannot be undone. She can only abort this baby and cover up its very existence from cruel people like you (considering your conservatism, I would think you would be against abortion, but it is precisely your attitude that encourages an already pregnant woman to consider abortion more seriously), or she can bare this baby and give it away or raise it on her own.
Try to come up with something useful for the OP given her situation at present.
No more than it can have laws unless it punishes those who violate them. "Enforcement" doesn't have to mean beheading; it can, and did, mean a powerful shame, a lack of any kind of acceptability for certain things to be mentioned in polite society.So, you're saying that a society can't have standards unless it vigorously and harshly enforces those standards?
Only if you think that there is no appreciable difference between those Muslim countries and, say, the America of our grandparents, and if you were forced to choose between living in one or the other environment, you would have no preference. Is that what you think?Isn't that what most Middle Eastern countries do? The ones where they physically punish any woman who leaves her head uncovered, or any man who doesn't follow the Koran's teachings to the letter?
When you put it that way, yes. Society is comprised of individuals, and thus individuals must be willing and able to criticize people for doing wrong things even when they occasionally do things wrong themselves. Otherwise, again, no jury would be able to vote to convict someone since hey, the jurors have done bad things too.My point is just that, as an imperfect human being, I'm not going to harshly criticize someone else for making a mistake. Or is hypocrisy an acceptable societal standard?
Ah, a variation of the "back of the bus" argument. I was actually kind of surprised someone hadn't brought this up already. A very common tactic of the left. "Yes, divorce was lower, but wife-beating was rampant." "Yes, abortion was illegal, but tens of thousands of women were dying every month in back-alley coat-hanger abortions." "Yes, crime rates were lower, but the criminal justice system was racist and executed innocent people." Etc., etc.The divorce rate was lower back then, too! Let's go back to a time where societies beliefs made people stay in abusive relationships instead of engaging in such destructive behaviors as divorce!
Do you have any actual evidence that marital abuse was such a massive, endemic problem that it justified enacting no-fault divorce and the ensuing catastrophic breakdown of the family? Or do you think we can just assume that to be true, since all right-thinking people know that society was evil and oppressive and patriarchal back in those Dark Ages, and so wife-beating must have been accepted and common?