Hi everyone,
First, I am sorry if this has been asked before or if its just purely annoying. To dispel some awkwardness and confusion, I am not a Pre-Med or a MS...so what am I doing on this forum?
I'm here to gain insight of a MS's schedule, lifestyle, hours, and personal views on dating and relationships. Why? Because I'm dating a newly turned MS4 and I'd like to know what I'm getting myself into by asking strangers on the internet for perspective. Yes, totally rational. But this is one of the few places I could find that has a localized and strong population of MSs so....
I have read the FAQs and a couple related threads so I have a vague idea of what you all learn and go through in medical school.
But I'm not sure what a MS's views towards significant others is and I'd like to acquire some information to form a kind of game plan at the very least. I work full-time for a firm so my hours are also limited and planning ahead is necessary for me to be able to squeeze in a date but it's been tough given that I have very little understanding of a MS4's schedule. The person I am seeing just started his fourth year on Monday and as far as I know, his schedule is still up in the air.
What I'd like to ask is:
1. I understand that you are busy and every second counts for studying/learning/running around the hospital....so how much time would you be willing to spend with your BF/GF? Is it common for you to feel guilty for not studying while you are with them?
2. What is your schedule and typical day like? Fourth years and those who've gone beyond that point, I would really appreciate it if you can give me feedback on this one.
3. What can an S/O do for you that would make your lives a hell of a lot easier? What gestures from them do you appreciate the most?
4. Do you like talking about your work and what you did for the day with your S/O or is that a topic that should be left unsaid?
5. Are you ever too tired for sex? No, seriously.
6. Do you ever feel like outsiders in comparison to your non-MS peers? Does this bother you?
Help me understand you!
First, I am sorry if this has been asked before or if its just purely annoying. To dispel some awkwardness and confusion, I am not a Pre-Med or a MS...so what am I doing on this forum?
I'm here to gain insight of a MS's schedule, lifestyle, hours, and personal views on dating and relationships. Why? Because I'm dating a newly turned MS4 and I'd like to know what I'm getting myself into by asking strangers on the internet for perspective. Yes, totally rational. But this is one of the few places I could find that has a localized and strong population of MSs so....
I have read the FAQs and a couple related threads so I have a vague idea of what you all learn and go through in medical school.
But I'm not sure what a MS's views towards significant others is and I'd like to acquire some information to form a kind of game plan at the very least. I work full-time for a firm so my hours are also limited and planning ahead is necessary for me to be able to squeeze in a date but it's been tough given that I have very little understanding of a MS4's schedule. The person I am seeing just started his fourth year on Monday and as far as I know, his schedule is still up in the air.
What I'd like to ask is:
1. I understand that you are busy and every second counts for studying/learning/running around the hospital....so how much time would you be willing to spend with your BF/GF? Is it common for you to feel guilty for not studying while you are with them?
2. What is your schedule and typical day like? Fourth years and those who've gone beyond that point, I would really appreciate it if you can give me feedback on this one.
3. What can an S/O do for you that would make your lives a hell of a lot easier? What gestures from them do you appreciate the most?
4. Do you like talking about your work and what you did for the day with your S/O or is that a topic that should be left unsaid?
5. Are you ever too tired for sex? No, seriously.
6. Do you ever feel like outsiders in comparison to your non-MS peers? Does this bother you?
Help me understand you!
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