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I just finished all my secondaries and I have applied broadly throughout the country.
I recently made the realization that in medicine, you don't know where you'll be (location wise) a few years from now. I have no idea if I will get into med school let alone know where I will get in. So I have no idea where I will be this time next year. The same thing goes for MS4's applying to residency. It's just a swing and you go with it.
How do you deal with this when you are in a relationship? Is it selfish for me to expect my fiance to move wherever my career tells me to go?
I recently made the realization that in medicine, you don't know where you'll be (location wise) a few years from now. I have no idea if I will get into med school let alone know where I will get in. So I have no idea where I will be this time next year. The same thing goes for MS4's applying to residency. It's just a swing and you go with it.
How do you deal with this when you are in a relationship? Is it selfish for me to expect my fiance to move wherever my career tells me to go?