I'm not MD/PhD, but figured you guys had the most knowledge about this stuff
My problem in a nutshell: I had a funded research gig, had a mental breakdown, did an abysmal job.
Q1: I feel like I cheated my PI and the grant-givers by not doing the work I said I would in my project proposal. Should I borrow money to pay them back? (~3000 PI, ~2000 from medical school, 5000 from grant.)
Q2: Can I leave the research experience out of my CV and residency app? If someone asks, I would just say that I had a personal problem or that I took a "vacation". I don't want to come off as an unreliable person who doesn't do the work she said she'd do.
Q3: If I pay back the money, am I allowed to not mention the grants on future grant proposals that require a list of all previous funding?
BASICALLY, how can I make this disappear? I would rather people think I spent the summer on a beach than to know what really happened.
Background, if you're interested: Less than a week after I started my research, which was supposed to be MS1 summer full-time and part-time MS2, something really really really horrible happened in my personal life (I'm not talking about a breakup or anything silly like that; I'm talking about serious trauma). I lost interest in everything, spent the rest of the summer dragging myself to lab (late) and spent all my time there focusing on not crying (not entirely successfully, but managed to hide it from coworkers). During MS2 I spent my limited energy on coursework and did not go in to lab nearly as often as I had promised on my grant applications. I must have started hundreds of experiments, but ran out of steam and completed 5, and I have NO data or anything that I could ethically put on a progress report.
Now that it's a year later, I have my life back and I'm energized about research again. I have a new, year long, full time unfunded position in a new lab (too much emotional baggage in the old place). I did not mention last summer and no one asked. Maybe this was unethical, but I really just didn't want to talk about it, now or ever, especially not with supervisors/ interviewers/ program directors (I tend to tear up or cry when I talk about it). which brings me to the questions above.
Thanks for taking the time to read and respond. And though the story above may make me seem fragile, I'm really not, so please don't sugar coat.
Edited to add: If you don't think I can make this go away, I would appreciate suggestions to minimize its impact on my future, especially grant proposals and residency applications.
My problem in a nutshell: I had a funded research gig, had a mental breakdown, did an abysmal job.
Q1: I feel like I cheated my PI and the grant-givers by not doing the work I said I would in my project proposal. Should I borrow money to pay them back? (~3000 PI, ~2000 from medical school, 5000 from grant.)
Q2: Can I leave the research experience out of my CV and residency app? If someone asks, I would just say that I had a personal problem or that I took a "vacation". I don't want to come off as an unreliable person who doesn't do the work she said she'd do.
Q3: If I pay back the money, am I allowed to not mention the grants on future grant proposals that require a list of all previous funding?
BASICALLY, how can I make this disappear? I would rather people think I spent the summer on a beach than to know what really happened.
Background, if you're interested: Less than a week after I started my research, which was supposed to be MS1 summer full-time and part-time MS2, something really really really horrible happened in my personal life (I'm not talking about a breakup or anything silly like that; I'm talking about serious trauma). I lost interest in everything, spent the rest of the summer dragging myself to lab (late) and spent all my time there focusing on not crying (not entirely successfully, but managed to hide it from coworkers). During MS2 I spent my limited energy on coursework and did not go in to lab nearly as often as I had promised on my grant applications. I must have started hundreds of experiments, but ran out of steam and completed 5, and I have NO data or anything that I could ethically put on a progress report.
Now that it's a year later, I have my life back and I'm energized about research again. I have a new, year long, full time unfunded position in a new lab (too much emotional baggage in the old place). I did not mention last summer and no one asked. Maybe this was unethical, but I really just didn't want to talk about it, now or ever, especially not with supervisors/ interviewers/ program directors (I tend to tear up or cry when I talk about it). which brings me to the questions above.
Thanks for taking the time to read and respond. And though the story above may make me seem fragile, I'm really not, so please don't sugar coat.
Edited to add: If you don't think I can make this go away, I would appreciate suggestions to minimize its impact on my future, especially grant proposals and residency applications.
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