I'm facing a similar situation, I'll be moving from Virginia Beach to San Francisco, and the only four choices that I've seen so far were:
1. Full service moving company: estimates between $4,000 - $5,000 !!! I just can't afford it.
2. Do all the packing and loading and pay for the moving: estimates run between $2,500 - $3,500
3. Pack, load, and drive a rental truck (with my car hauled behind): $1,500 - $2,000, not counting gas expenses.
4. Sell almost everything I have, and drive my car, hauling a small trailer behind with the most valuable things: $500 - $1,000. Not counting gas expenses, and ofcourse the need to buy furniture and stuff once I get there.
I have these choices, and I can't decide. I want to save, but I don't want to have a horrible experience having to drive a rental truck all the way, it's really a looooong drive to California 😕