I will add my two cents here - I married another student and we will both interns next year but in different fields. I have had this great dilemna since we got married. I have not officially changed anything. But on my id I have a hyphenated name and kind of have picked which name to go by on different rotations to see if i could get used to being called by my married name. as i just had to register for my diploma, i decided to put down a hyphenated name. i decided on this after a year of asking every married resident or attending how they did it. i did come across a resident who legally has a hyphenated name, but uses just the maiden part for work. there is nothing egotiscal about doing this. especially when you are married to another dr in the same hospital. and as far as the publishing stuff goes - i too have several publications under my maiden name. and no they weren't some dumb no name thing as an undergrad. so i can totally relate to gg about that. i was told to keep using that name whenever i publish, so that is what i am trying to do. as far as working out the details - little things get tough - like your name on your insurance card, bank account, and names not matching to what is on your driver's licence. i wanted to use my married name socially - but it has proven to be somewhat difficult with it hyphenated or just my maiden name being my legal name. at places where you don't have to have an official id out, then it is not difficult to be known just by your married name.
i know that was long winded, but hope it helps some