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Yes, that guy is freaking me out a little also.....
Why the third person? I'm right here. Care to elaborate?
Yes, that guy is freaking me out a little also.....
Why the third person? I'm right here. Care to elaborate?
Its just seems to me that long hair in any other field can get a pass.. eg lying lawyer, taco stand owner, absent minded professor, physicist- Einstein had the appropiate look down packed! But I doubt that anyone with rank at J.P. Morgan has long hair..
When seeing patients in the medical field (military or no military) people expect a clean shaven guy.. No long hair , no 3 days of beard stubble , no tatoos, no post nasal drip, no dirty jeans, no old oily sweat shirts, no specks of dirt under the nails, in general no "young rebel stuff" ..Because as you know medicine is conservative by nature..
Also the older generation WILL be offended with any of "hippie doc stuff"
Just seemed like a bit of a stretch mentioning the military.. No offense..
When seeing patients in the medical field (military or no military) people expect a clean shaven guy.. No long hair , no 3 days of beard stubble , no tatoos, no post nasal drip, no dirty jeans, no old oily sweat shirts, no specks of dirt under the nails, in general no "young rebel stuff" ..
That's not the case. Long hair for males is considered to be unprofessional no matter what your field (maybe with the exception of entertainment).
I don't want to go into historical details here, but the standard for males to have short hair and be shaven comes down all the way from the military of Alexander the Great, Romans, etc. Males were required to have short hair and be shaven so that the enemy could not grab their hair during the battle. Ironically, when people fight dogs, that's exactly why they crop dog's ears and tails. During renaissance, long hair was so much in fashion that all males of high stature wore huge wigs... If you care, you can read about the rest on your own time. I still stand by what I said.
Many people from the "old" generation were hippies themselves or witnessed hippies. Maybe this is why hey have such an intolerance for long hair.
And I am sorry, but I don't think any one of us can really control our post-nasal drip. All of us enjoy the ooze in gallons. But I do suggest that you use peroxide if you want to be presentable to your patients in any shape or form (unless you want to pray to the one who created us in his own image) .
I was growing out my beard and hair earlier this year. I had a few inches of beard and almost six inches of hair. I wanted to look like this guy: http://entimg.msn.com/i/gal/KingArt/KA12_300x435.jpg
Can you picture the above guy in a white coat? Would you tell him that he looked unprofessional...?
I finally cut my hair and shaved a week before thanksgiving. Got tired of having to shampoo it in the morning. Now doing the shave once a week thing.
my husband has a beard almost as long as that and shaves his head crewcut style. I told him that for my whitecoat ceremony I want him to shave his head completely bald and I'll braid the beard and put beads in. Only half-joking.
Ok buddy, Im talking about the guy who thinks its ok to have a post nasal drip like Niagra Falls... I mean some of these guys are just plain uncool and little uncoth. (hope I spelled that right) Also Allegra and Claritin can work wonders in managing post nasal drip!
Are you serious? I thought you were joking. I am not sure if anyone even mentioned that in this thread, but again, it's a natural process and you can't prevent it. Anti-histamines can only alleviate the issue if you have some major turbinate expansion due to specific seasonal allergies. Even then, most people suffering from perennial rhinitis don't get any relief even when they submit to immunotherapeutic injections. So I don't know what you're talking about. I'll still assume that's supposed to be black humor.
I acknowledge what you say.. But be aware an elderly couple or anyone for that matter.. If they hear a guy (a doc) pulling up his nose too many times, it just doesnt look good. And might minimize the amount of referrals.. People dont expect to see or hear the doc making "sick sounds" too often..
Im not saying I never pulled up my nose (swallowing a post -nasal drip)
I just believe in making a good impression.. [short hair, Osler style, listening to patient, enough rest, ,communicating timely and properly especially when you DON't feel like it, attempting some humility, not being a robot, showing some compassion and not getting ran over! etc.]
For the love of Pete. Seriously dude. No offense, but it looks like a mop in this picture. Cut it, lose the beard, pluck the eyebrows. The ladies will go wild.
Oh, and while you're at it, invest in a face.
Definitely not Fabio-long hair. But longish hair can look 100% professional and great. See pic:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X1nfgcTUg7s&feature=related
We wrote a paper a few years ago (Budny AM, Rogers LC, Mandracchia VJ, Lascher S. The physician's attire and its influence on patient confidence. J Amer Podiatr Med Assoc 2006;96:132-136) where we surveyed a hundred patients from different clinics (private practice, hospital based) of varying ages and insurance carriers on what physical appearance features inspired their confidence in doctors.
We found that patients had the most confidence in the traditional "Norman Rockwell" type doctor - professional dress, white coat, visible stethoscope and name tag.
Non-traditional hairstyles were found not to inspire confidence in 31% of patients, as did facial jewelry (68%), visible tatoos (51%), and male earrings (41%).
Here's a blog entry on non-traditional hairstyles in med school. Albeit, a pink mohawk is certainly more extreme than your "Josh Groban" style.
http://medscape.typepad.com/thedifferential/2007/01/my_pink_mohawk.html
Lee
I love how the OP posted his a picture of his hair completely unprompted. Dude we get it, the women go wild or whatever. It seems like the whole point of this thread was for him to end up posting a picture of himself so that some girl would respond saying something to the effect of "you're hair is cute" and then demand a full face pic which the guy probably already has waiting on his desktop just ready to post.
How do you even have time to post such idiotic things on a message board, shouldn't you be busy plucking your eyebrows?
People said "depends on the hair" so I posted a picture five days after the first post. Somebody insulted me, so I said that I liked my hair and its working out nice for me. I just wanted a genuine opinion.
For the record - I did NOT insult you. As a matter of fact, I prefaced my post with "no offense..." You asked for a genuine opinion, and that's what you got. A genuine opinion. In this photo, your hair looks unruly, unkempt, and unprofessional. I mistook the curly bits falling into your eyes as a unibrow and thus suggested more meticulous eyebrow care. These were observations, not insults. The remainder was simply some light-hearted humor.
Look, if you can't take some well-intentioned criticism, why did you even ask for other peoples' opinions in the first place?
For the love of Pete. Seriously dude. No offense, but it looks like a mop in this picture. Cut it, lose the beard, pluck the eyebrows. The ladies will go wild.
Oh, and while you're at it, invest in a face.
Ugh, anything but a ponytail. There's a doc on staff at my school who has a ponytail, and he looks like a tool. Worse, he sometimes wears a bow tie. I never trust men in bow ties. If I went to see a new doctor and he walked into the exam room wearing a ponytail and bow tie, I'd say "get me out of here; I want a different doctor."
Very few men can pull off long hair and still look good/professional. No man looks good with hair longer than just-past-chin-level (think Sawyer from Lost as a good cutoff for what is acceptable - and realize that there are few men who can pull that off and make it look attractive).
Wild, unkempt curly hair that falls in your eyes makes you look like you have a mop on your head. Long, straight hair that gets pulled back in a ponytail generally looks terrible on guys - people will think that you are either lazy or a musician. Fauxhawks are out and will make you look like a DB. It is my personal opinion that no man looks good with a ponytail, no matter what length.
In general, keep it short, keep it clean, keep the lines sharp in the back/sides (it looks really bad when it looks like fuzz is starting to track down your neck - get it cut/trimmed regularly). You don't have to spend a ton of money, either. Find a cheap salon or get a pair of scissors and a trimmer and have a friend/SO/classmate do it for you. It's not rocket science. If you're keeping it short, you should probably trim it every 3-4 weeks.
IMNSHO, there are few things that look as simultaneously professional and attractive as a freshly-barbered man in a shirt and tie. But then again, I think every man should look, dress, and talk like Daniel Craig or Hugh Jackman, so wtf do I know. Apparently I'm getting very judgmental in my old age.
I'm an M1 (male) makin' my way through... well... M1, and everything is all fine except I have this slight dilemma, a hairy situation, one might say, if they were completely shameless.
After my interview last November, I stopped cutting my hair, deciding before I was accepted that I wouldn't cut my hair til I was in medical school. Long story short, my short hair got long and I found out my hair was VERY curly (never knew) and grew in nice ringlets that eventually found their way into my eyes. Lots of compliments, lots of "oh my god what is wrong with your hair," but generally got great reviews.
I cut it all off the Friday before M1.
My problem is this: I never felt like I gave really long hair a chance, and I have a desire to let it grow out again. What is your opinion? Is well-kept long hair acceptable in medical school? I'm an M1 so I really wont be interviewing for a few years, and I COULD cut it all off before evals in M3-4. I'm great with patients, and a well-kept guy so I wouldn't be the beast with long hair that ends up scaring people. So here it is.
I'm looking to grow it out over the rest of M1 and let it go nuts over the summer, hopefully ending up being able to ponytail it when I need to look professional.
Do you think its ok to have long hair in medical school? And if you have long hair in med school, how did you keep it out of your eyes/etc while growing it?