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anyone else in the same boat?
calichik said:I usually tell others that D.O.s and M.D.s are the same in that they are both complete licensed physicians in the U.S. The difference is that D.O.s have a different philosophy in approaching medicine and have the advantage of using OMM to help treat/diagnose patients. I try to keep it as simple as that to avoid going into detail.
specialkay said:As a proud DO student ... I just do not care. My parent's friends even asked me if I was going to be a "real doctor" at the end ... oye vey!! I usually give the same rundown as mblum151 ...
Its more about YOUR attitude about what you are doing ... I usually just feel bad for people who want to compare you to themselves or their children ... these are the same people who will ask you how much you are making in the future ... and I come from a family of MD's, foreign born so its even harder for them to understand.
At the last party I was at over the holidays (in a v. snobby area of S. Cali in a v. large house) I ran into the father of an old classmate who is doing very well at Large MD School. He barely looked up at me while he was eating and told me how well his daughter is doing, second-best board score in the US, going to specialize in super-great surgery specialty with an emphasis in one body part, blah blah blah. His arrogance was appalling ... and yet, I felt sorry for him because if that's what he needs to feel good about himself then so be it.
I just looked up at him and said - "well, if I ever need an operation in that body part, I know who to call!" and walked away. I think its great his child is doing so well, studying so hard and focusing on surgery, which I think is the last thing I would ever do.
Your life and my life is no better or worse than anyone else's due to career or income. Happiness should lie in your heart, knowing I am a good person treating my friends and family well. What comes before my name in the hospital is "doctor" either way - what comes after is inconsequential, unless you need an adjustment, then it better be DO!
So, when these people approach you with their terrible attitude, remember that one day they will:
a) complain to you about how the MD spends two minutes with them
b) talk about how great holistic health is
c) finally acknowledge that DO is the same, if not a little bit better 😉 (Okay, opinion, pls. don't flame me!)
d) look at you a completely different way.
So, all you can do is alleviate their ignorance with kindness and hope that they educate themselves about the difference in the future - much like our future patients!!
medanthgirl said:what a great attitude!!! you are my hero!!![]()
llort said:I was trying to explain DO to a friend of mine, and her reply was:
"so, you are going to be like a medicine man?" to which I quickly backhanded her. stupid ho.
JohnDO said:I've found that most people are willing to listen and learn if you take the time to explain it. I usually give them an extremely brief overview. If they seem interested (or ask why have two professions that do the same thing), I go into the historical details.
The other day I asked someone if they knew the difference between MDs and DOs (after explaining that I would be earning a DO and not an MD). He said "isn't it like the national league and the american league? One was founded out of distaste for the other, but now they both just play baseball."
He obviously knew a little bit about the history, which I was extremely happy to see.
saxman said:If M.D.s are the New England Patriots of Health Care, then the D.O.s are most certainly the Philadelphia Eagles.
P.S. Eagles better win this Sunday! LOL.
If M.D.s are the New England Patriots of Health Care, then the D.O.s are most certainly the Philadelphia Eagles.
C'mon now ... the Pats are all about teamwork, everyone interdependent, more than the sum of their parts, what one does affects the whole team ... the Pats must be the DOs! 🙂 Go Pats!Or the Pats are Apollo Creed and the Iggles are Rocky Balboa...
E-A-G-L-E-S...EAGLES!!!!
FireR1E4 said:C'mon now ... the Pats are all about teamwork, everyone interdependent, more than the sum of their parts, what one does affects the whole team ... the Pats must be the DOs! 🙂 Go Pats!
Fermata said:Are you really that uncreative?
How about: "Just two letters".