i don't think personality clashes are that big a deal. yes, neurosurgeons are a very unique group of people. it's very much a boys club with old school hard-ass mentality at most places i've looked at.
but honestly, i turn into a different person when i'm around them, and become myself again when i leave. some people look down upon that, but theyve never tried staying on call all night with this group of people.
you learn to adapt, that's all.
to get a neurosurgeon to listen to me, and if i know him, i'll get in his face and stop him to make him listen. if i did that on peds, different story.
ditto on the trauma surgery. funny story, i tagged along one night with trauma surgeons, got a suicide attempt who needed an emergency hemicraniotomy for a massive subdural bleed. i ended up on neurosurgery call yet again because i wanted to see if he'd make it. (btw, he did)
neurosurgery has its own sweet sort of trauma surgery, and i can't deny it's one of the most enticing factors that drew me out of ortho and more towards neuro