We had sort of a blowout. She now says that she won't do it bottom line. I can't believe it and am really upset. I thought we had an argreement. She says I now have some really tough choices to make. I don't understand what she expects me to do. I'm realy f*cked. I currently work full time and go to school full time. I work really hard to get all A's and am very passionate about pursuing med school. My wife doesn't work. She takes care of the babies which I think is good, but it puts all the pressure on me. We barely can afford the 3 bedroom apartment we live in. Without any type of advanced degree, I doubt ill be making more money than I do now. I swear I feel like I'm gonna have a breakdown. Sorry about the rant everyone but I dont know what to do. Maybe she's just having a bad night but I think she's really serious. She wants me to be a teacher, which I think is a really noble profession, but I know I'll never be happy as I will feel like I sold myself short. The expression, "those who cannot do, teach" haunts my mind. I love my baby boy very much. I dont want to get a divorce, but things are looking pretty grim and im still an undergrad. yikes!!!! I don't know what to do.