Hi all, long time lurker, first time poster here... So delighted to see this as a new dedicated thread! I think I have read every section of every thread written about non trad applicants in the last ten years or so
Saw a quick pop up from
@LetItSnow there early. Sir, I have read a LOT of your posts lol... that sounds very stalker-ish. It was really that you were one of the non trads that came from an unrelated career, similar in age, and your posts were so helpful, so thank you.
So, I currently work in finance/tax... for like 16 years, and I just turned 41. I have a very successful career by 'normal' measures.. but I've been dreaming about pursuing a second career in vet med for many years now (and like many, it was my growing up career choice). A good friend who originally went to med school in the Caribbean was pushing me to properly look into it over drinks about 3/4 years ago..as I confessed what I spent my spare time looking into in secret... her words 'just do it, dude', you'll be done before you know it. And now look, in theory I actually could be nearly done-ish! I say that flippantly, not nearly that simple of course I understand... pre-reqs, experience, actually getting in etc etc etc. And for me, honestly, a healthy dose of 'I couldn't possibly do anything as mental as that' FEAR. ie. giving up a lucrative career, to not earn anything for four years at least (in fact the opposite), to start again in a brand new career that will never ever pay me the same. Pls don't get me wrong, I'm not all about the salary, at all, by any means, I'd happily give it up to be a vet...but I do find comfort as a single person in knowing I can save to support myself growing old...and it's a scary thought to risk that. But is it scarier to just keep plodding on, tolerating my working life, wondering, what if?
So I decided when I turned 40 last year, that reading about this would not solve anything.. and early this year, in 2020, I applied to Uni, and I just finished my first Bio class, whilst still working my FT finance job. I was hoping to get some vet shadowing experience over the past summer, but I felt stuck with Covid. So this year, as I continue taking classes, I'll bite the bullet and look for shadowing. Anyone feel a bit embarrassed asking to shadow at this age? I guess I'm just afraid of the reaction I might get...of people thinking I'm a crazy lady...
Maybe I don't get there with this, maybe I reconsider after some proper shadowing (because I do understand I that I can't really know I want this for sure until I do plenty of shadowing), maybe I discover another passion along the way as I learn new things... the evolution / genetics has been pretty cool.. (I did bio / chem in high school a billion years ago, but these are my first uni level courses) ...we will see, I see no waste in any education regardless.
But one thing I will offer after reading this full thread... re people worrying about losing time to not finding relationships, settling down, having kids etc.. let me just say.... I'm not discounting the time and focus that vet med takes, but remember there are really no guarantees in life. If you don't go for what you want, life will still pass, and you may not meet that person, or have kids, in that planned timeframe. Sorry, that sounds awful, but I mean it in the nicest way and without any bitterness I swear!
. I don't think I ever considered that I wouldn't be settled with someone, maybe married, maybe with a kid, by the time I was 40. But things just didn't work out that way...and I feel differently about having kids now, and thats ok. Its all good, I've been having fantastic adventures and travels etc over the past few years, I have had relationships, I have amazing friends and family, and I guess the above mentioned (not really loved) career, and I consider myself very very lucky. So go ahead, the rest will figure itself out and the right person will come along, if thats what you would like, when its supposed to! ..
Anyhow, if I figure all this out.. and take another two years to finish pre-reqs, I could be starting at 43/44... will I be brave enough to stay the course down this road?! We shall see. I'm excited for everyone on this journey anyway, and wish everyone the best, Ill be cheering along!
Also, this is ridiculously long... thank you to anyone who reads this far. Fair play to you