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should we call the program director to express thanks? What is expected?
what about the other places where you interviewed at? Do we need to thank them for the interview and express regret we did not match?
In Iserson's long, drawn-out book it says:
As soon as you find out where you've matched, make a phone call to your new PD. It should be brief and enthusiastic, even if the program was not your 1st choice. Tell him/her how glad you are to have matched with the program and how much you're looking forward to starting. This is also a good time to ask if they need any additional info. It says to keep it short and to establish a positive image of yourself in the PD's mind.
Then, and this seems like overkill to me, he says to write a letter to the guy/gal repeating your enthusiastic response and again asking them if they need more information. Give sufficient addresses and telephone numbers so that they can send you everthing they need to.
Take that for what it's worth.
Perhaps writing to programs you regret not matching to, wherever they were on your list, should be contingent upon whether you expect to interact with people part of the program in the future (i.e. at professional meetings), whether they offered any particular kindness that you felt worthwhile or unique, and whether the letter might provide some food for thought for the PD on how they might improve for match 2008
remember you're going to be working with these people for at least 3 years - you really want to give the impression that you're a total dork 5 minutes after you matched?
Match is a game, those who play the game well, win...be it either the programs or applicants. and believe me...programs are better than you at the game....they have done this for years without regret. then, why should a firsttimer in the residency Match process regret anything?
About 1-2 weeks post match I got emails from my 2nd and 3rd choice programs stating that they had ranked me to match at their program and wanted to know why I chose my first choice over them. That was when I sent them a nice email expressing gratitude for the opportunity and let them know it was a tough choice.