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Hey all, I haven't even started med school yet, but I managed to start off on the completely wrong foot where I'm going to start this fall. I'm doing a summer research gig with funding from the school... I sent out feelers to a bunch of researchers, received positive responses from two, answered both enthusiastically, tried to set up meetings with both, and then met with and accepted one project I felt really great about before the other could squeeze me into his schedule to meet with me.
Anyway -- apparently the other researcher had assumed I was going to work with him from the very beginning and felt misled. So he blew up. He heads a prominent clinical trial center in the field I'm interested in, in the most common disease in my field. (I am doing a project on a more obscure condition.) Granted, this is a huge research university, so I don't know how much people talk to each other, but I'm guessing at least some, and I suspect this guy has a lot of clout. I'm definitely kicking myself.
So, I went into de-escalation/damage control mode with heartfelt apologies, no explanations/excuses, which I think usually goes over the best. But still. I am a worried camper. Any advice? Just how worried should I be about this?
Thanks much, all.
Anyway -- apparently the other researcher had assumed I was going to work with him from the very beginning and felt misled. So he blew up. He heads a prominent clinical trial center in the field I'm interested in, in the most common disease in my field. (I am doing a project on a more obscure condition.) Granted, this is a huge research university, so I don't know how much people talk to each other, but I'm guessing at least some, and I suspect this guy has a lot of clout. I'm definitely kicking myself.
So, I went into de-escalation/damage control mode with heartfelt apologies, no explanations/excuses, which I think usually goes over the best. But still. I am a worried camper. Any advice? Just how worried should I be about this?
Thanks much, all.