Thanks! Another neighborhood that I saw which wasn't too far away and was a bit cheaper is prospect heights...is that neighborhood a bit safer? Also, as a Californian, I am addicted to my car...how is parking in brooklyn, i've heard street parking is easy.
It depends what part of prospect heights you're talking about. If you're in the IMMEDIATE (like less than 2 blocks max) vicinity of Brooklyn museum, Brooklyn Public Library, Grand Army Plaza, etc., that's the safer part of Prospect Heights. From what I've heard (no personal experience), the rest of PH, especially the side east of Washington Avenue isn't where you want to live. It's not a great neighborhood as far as I know. As far as stuff to do in the area, it's probably about a 15 min walk from the Brooklyn museum to 5th ave. in central Park Slope and 3-4 subway stops from Atlantic Center... nothing in the immediate vicinity, but definitely closer to the action than East Flatbush (Downstate).
Park Slope is a much better neighborhood than Prospect Heights because it's a young area (young professionals and young families) and it's relatively safe. There's also stuff to do when you want to get out - restaurants, bars, lounges, cafes, convenience stores, laundromats, etc., and if you're in northern Park Slope, aka North Slope, Atlantic Center (mall + supermarket + movie theater + like 12 subway lines + probably more that I don't know about) is closeby.... but from elsewhere in Park Slope it's only like 2-3 subway stops away which is no biggie.
I'm looking to move out of the dorms for third year, my top choice is Park Slope, 2nd choice is PH close to the library and museum.
Oh, and no idea about the parking situation in Brooklyn... learning to love the subways sounds like a good idea though. The waiting list for a spot in the Downstate parking garage is a ridiculous 2.5-3 years last I checked, so don't hold your breath on that one.