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Hello everyone,
I have been accepted to medical school and will be living at home.
After having obtained my first loan/Line of Credit, my parents seem to have developed a daily fear that I will end up relying on it so much that it will become a habit of excessive spending and debt before actually becoming a doctor. They have even offered to pay me monthly expenses just so I do not have to dip into the line of credit but that comes with relying on someone else financially which makes me extremely uncomfortable.
It is getting to the point where I am sick and tired of having to explain WHY I need to buy x, y, z which can extend from decently priced professional clothes to an enjoyable, relaxing cup of coffee from the local cafe. I don't want to explain myself every time I buy something for the next 4 years.
How does one deal with this beyond the "None of your business, I am X age, I can do whatever I want" type of discussion which I have all ready done with them.
Any advise, support, similar experiences to get through this?
Edit: Thank you everyone for your responses! I will definitely be keeping everything in mind as I deal with this issue.
I have been accepted to medical school and will be living at home.
After having obtained my first loan/Line of Credit, my parents seem to have developed a daily fear that I will end up relying on it so much that it will become a habit of excessive spending and debt before actually becoming a doctor. They have even offered to pay me monthly expenses just so I do not have to dip into the line of credit but that comes with relying on someone else financially which makes me extremely uncomfortable.
It is getting to the point where I am sick and tired of having to explain WHY I need to buy x, y, z which can extend from decently priced professional clothes to an enjoyable, relaxing cup of coffee from the local cafe. I don't want to explain myself every time I buy something for the next 4 years.
How does one deal with this beyond the "None of your business, I am X age, I can do whatever I want" type of discussion which I have all ready done with them.
Any advise, support, similar experiences to get through this?
Edit: Thank you everyone for your responses! I will definitely be keeping everything in mind as I deal with this issue.
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