I really wonder at what age do people grow up and start taking responsibility for their own actions. So your parents were fighting when you took your SATs. My mom was basically dying when I took mine, the doctors told her to get her finances and all that stuff in order because they had run out of options. Thankfully, I believe it was some miracle, but she's more or less doing pretty well now.
Anyway, why blame your parents for a low SAT score? It's not like they chained you to the house while you studied, you could have very easily gone down to the library to study. I didn't study for my SAT or my classes at home, I couldn't handle it, so I went to the library or Starbucks everyday. Listen, if you want to go to Bing, go to Binghamton. Otherwise, if something goes wrong at Hunter, you'll be blaming your parents that they made you go to Hunter and because of that, you didn't get the same opportunuties or whatever. BTW, it's not true, Hunter is a fine school, and people get into med school;s from there, but it would be very easy to blame your parents for not getting in.
First year I applied to med school, I didn't get in. I got mad, told my parents the reason I didn't get in was because I went to the school they wanted me to go to. Then I realized they didn't force me to go there,they couldn't have. They made a suggestion adn I took it. And I went to a good school, i just didn't have the luck. So you really need to start taking responsibilities for your own actions, they can't force you to go to Hunter or Stonybrook, they can strongly suggest it, but they can't force you.