As offers for Clinical Psychology PhD programs are coming in and I have to start thinking of decisions, I wanted to ask everyone about a particular issue. I got into a program I absolutely loved (the students seem very happy, I loved my potential adviser's research and mentoring style, and the school is in a cheap yet big city where my parents live - which would be very helpful as I have a one year old baby, I also have great connections there from undergrad which will help with finding my husband a good job). Most graduate students there end up working in hospital settings / VAs / etc. It's an APA accredited program with great funding but it is not super research heavy school, and the program was just recently accredited in 2009 (they are up for re-accreditation this fall... hopefully that's not an issue?)
However, I can't help but wonder if I should go with one of three more "prestigious" programs with famous mentors (I have no offers there yet - but I am thinking of it if I where to get it as there won't be much time to think about this if they do come in) where many graduate students tend to go with more traditional academic career tracks, publish more, some get F31/NSF grants, etc. These programs do have a strong research fit and nice advisors too, but they are located in the northeast, where my husband and I would probably have to have one hour commutes (we both hate commuting - but who doesn't?), and the cost of living is much more expensive. There would also be no family help with the baby.
I guess my question is - do I (and my husband/daughter) need to sacrifice location/cost of living/commute time/family help to go with one of the more famous advisers to achieve my goals (a research heavy post-doc and eventually a T-T job)? A part of me thinks my goal is so hard to achieve that I should not sacrifice 5 years+ of happiness for it. I also heard many people with academic goals end up liking clinical work and changing their career goals, so a part of me wants to go with the program that's a best fit overall.
My potential new advisor said that he will help me with my goals if I am willing to work towards them - but his students seem to be publishing less (but not little by any means) than the three other more "prestigious" schools I am considering (at the less prestigious program, the students tend to average 1 publication per year - while at the more prestigious program, they are averaging 2-3 pubs per year!)
However, I can't help but wonder if I should go with one of three more "prestigious" programs with famous mentors (I have no offers there yet - but I am thinking of it if I where to get it as there won't be much time to think about this if they do come in) where many graduate students tend to go with more traditional academic career tracks, publish more, some get F31/NSF grants, etc. These programs do have a strong research fit and nice advisors too, but they are located in the northeast, where my husband and I would probably have to have one hour commutes (we both hate commuting - but who doesn't?), and the cost of living is much more expensive. There would also be no family help with the baby.
I guess my question is - do I (and my husband/daughter) need to sacrifice location/cost of living/commute time/family help to go with one of the more famous advisers to achieve my goals (a research heavy post-doc and eventually a T-T job)? A part of me thinks my goal is so hard to achieve that I should not sacrifice 5 years+ of happiness for it. I also heard many people with academic goals end up liking clinical work and changing their career goals, so a part of me wants to go with the program that's a best fit overall.
My potential new advisor said that he will help me with my goals if I am willing to work towards them - but his students seem to be publishing less (but not little by any means) than the three other more "prestigious" schools I am considering (at the less prestigious program, the students tend to average 1 publication per year - while at the more prestigious program, they are averaging 2-3 pubs per year!)