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Hi,
I have noticed how important it is for people to share their experiences throughout the med school application process in order to vent their anxiety and feelings to a system so unpredictable, that it prevents decent and well-educated people from becoming doctors. From what I've heard, it is intense and most of all, a frustrating experience. I'm not pre-med, although now I wish I would have in order to understand this situation, but my question is, has anyone been in a relationship with someone who is pre-med or in med school? How do you feel about your relationship? I am trying to understand one because my relationship ended abruptly when I thought things were getting better (ex-girlfriend is pre-med, recently got accepted). Dont get me wrong, I'm extremely happy for her and I know she will be one of the best. But I had hoped that once she got accepted into med school, our relationship would go back to the way they were... I was wrong. She continued to accomodate the med schools, striving to be the best in her class, leaving little room for us. With such a tight schedule (school, volunteering, proposals, papers, and STUDYING) it's hard to plan events and special occasions when someone is so busy. Eventually, our relationship became dull because we had slowly stopped spending quality time together .
After reading what everyone is going through through the application process, how do you feel about having a relationship such as this one? Is yours just as difficult? Am I being selfish? Should I move on? The hardest part was the pain it left me, as in any relationship...what does one do in a situation like this? And how do you do it?
I have noticed how important it is for people to share their experiences throughout the med school application process in order to vent their anxiety and feelings to a system so unpredictable, that it prevents decent and well-educated people from becoming doctors. From what I've heard, it is intense and most of all, a frustrating experience. I'm not pre-med, although now I wish I would have in order to understand this situation, but my question is, has anyone been in a relationship with someone who is pre-med or in med school? How do you feel about your relationship? I am trying to understand one because my relationship ended abruptly when I thought things were getting better (ex-girlfriend is pre-med, recently got accepted). Dont get me wrong, I'm extremely happy for her and I know she will be one of the best. But I had hoped that once she got accepted into med school, our relationship would go back to the way they were... I was wrong. She continued to accomodate the med schools, striving to be the best in her class, leaving little room for us. With such a tight schedule (school, volunteering, proposals, papers, and STUDYING) it's hard to plan events and special occasions when someone is so busy. Eventually, our relationship became dull because we had slowly stopped spending quality time together .
After reading what everyone is going through through the application process, how do you feel about having a relationship such as this one? Is yours just as difficult? Am I being selfish? Should I move on? The hardest part was the pain it left me, as in any relationship...what does one do in a situation like this? And how do you do it?