Fellow SDNers,
I recently have been accepted to several DO schools and my wife and I have chosen to attend RVU-SU to stay close to family here in Utah. I also have an interview at USUHS later this month, so that is an option still on the table. I have some concerns that I would like some advice on. I am prior service, 6 years enlisted AF and am a matrix HPSP applicant with an HPSP offer accepted. The problem I have is that my oldest will be 16 turning 17 when I am done with residency. With the military route, both HPSP and USUHS, I will likely be deployed and/or we will be PCSing during his senior year of high school. This is worrisome to me. I do not mind going back to the military and feel that it would be a wise decision for financial stability during this arduous process of medical school and residency, but worry about the instability that military life would have on my children when they are older and I am done training. Being active duty while they were young was no big deal and my wife and I enjoyed the adventure. However, I worry about how military life will be on older kids, projected to be 17, 15, and 12. My wife and I are considering going the traditional civilian route. With my GI Bill, I would end up at probably 220-250000 in loans all said and done. This includes undergraduate debt for both her and I. Then of course, there is the whole forbearance thing which would take us to more like 280-310000. Anyone out here with older kids in the military? How did they do? Would we be better off doing it civilian and moving once for residency? I am thinking I could find work wherever we settle for residency so we wouldn't have to move after I am done.
I recently have been accepted to several DO schools and my wife and I have chosen to attend RVU-SU to stay close to family here in Utah. I also have an interview at USUHS later this month, so that is an option still on the table. I have some concerns that I would like some advice on. I am prior service, 6 years enlisted AF and am a matrix HPSP applicant with an HPSP offer accepted. The problem I have is that my oldest will be 16 turning 17 when I am done with residency. With the military route, both HPSP and USUHS, I will likely be deployed and/or we will be PCSing during his senior year of high school. This is worrisome to me. I do not mind going back to the military and feel that it would be a wise decision for financial stability during this arduous process of medical school and residency, but worry about the instability that military life would have on my children when they are older and I am done training. Being active duty while they were young was no big deal and my wife and I enjoyed the adventure. However, I worry about how military life will be on older kids, projected to be 17, 15, and 12. My wife and I are considering going the traditional civilian route. With my GI Bill, I would end up at probably 220-250000 in loans all said and done. This includes undergraduate debt for both her and I. Then of course, there is the whole forbearance thing which would take us to more like 280-310000. Anyone out here with older kids in the military? How did they do? Would we be better off doing it civilian and moving once for residency? I am thinking I could find work wherever we settle for residency so we wouldn't have to move after I am done.