Hi, I'm having a problem with 1 of my LORs, even though schls require minimum of 3, i'm submitting 4. My boss, who is writing 1 for me, might not get hers done for another 2 weeks, her father in law passed, and she's out for a week. I can send my other 3 LORs out, but I dont want the schls to make a decision till they get hers as hers has more weight. She has known me for 4.5yrs, and is an assistant dean at the med schl here, plus has been a director of admissions, and knows what to write. In other words, I need her letter!!!! Do I wait for hers, before sending all the LORs out, which is what I want to do. I've only sent out 3 secondaries anyway, still haven't received all my secondaries.