The Mr and I are going through some problems. And during a few of our discussions, he said something along the lines of "stop using psychiatrist talk on me." It's not like I'm using technical terms or anything, and I'm only an intern, so it's not like I have anything more profound to say than any other untrained but introspective person would. But I guess it sounds like "psychiatrist talk" rather than "pop psychology/Dr. Phil talk" because of the context. Any tips on dealing with relationship problems without making your partner feel like you're analyzing them or whatever. We have an appt with a couples counselor in a week, and I made a point to find a psychologist who's not affiliated with the residency program, so he won't feel ganged up on by psychiatry, so I hope that helps.