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I am posting this not so much because I need advice, but because my blood is boiling and it's seriously affecting my concentration, so I'm hoping this will purge my mind a bit....
So I have a wonderful 7 year old boy. Naturally, since it's summer vacation, he wants plenty of time to goof off doing 7-year old boy things with his best friend, who lives two houses down from us. Fine. The little boy is lovely, and his mom and I are good friends. Meanwhile, I'm studying for my upcoming MCAT retake.
Enter: the best friend's 5 year old sister.
Picture a kid that would make Super Nanny crap her pants. Picture a kid whose baseline is high-pitched hysterical screaming, who stomps popsicles into the carpet for entertainment, who has an affinity for climbing furniture and flushing various objects down the toilet, who has taken a @#$%! dump in the community pool not once but twice in the past two weeks. Who follows you around non-stop demanding various complex snacks (at risk of a high-decibal meltdown if you don't comply), tattles on the other kids nonstop about the most inane nothingness imagineable, follows you around with such gusto that she thinks nothing of busting through the door when you're on the throne...... the list goes on.
The boys will be playing outside minding their own business, when she'll randomly lose interest in whatever the other kids are doing and wander into our house. Most of the time I can grab her a glass of water or whatever it is she's after and re-direct her outside, but even this becomes a time sink when it's every half hour. My son is a really well behaved kid, I know I'm probably biased, but he really is a polite and tidy child who is even tempered and very drama-free. I have explained to him that "mommy has a big test" and until it's over, there are going to be times when he won't be able to have kids over.. but honestly, I wouldn't mind it if he had SOME kids over... it's just that the aforementioned ahem...challenging child tends to come with the neighborhood crew, and I don't have the heart to exclude her nor tell her mom that her kid is unmanageble and can't come over when the other kids are over. I've tried hinting and it flat out hasn't worked. To complicate matters, my son sometimes wants to go over to their house, which is fine with me, and as far as I know, fine with the other mom.... but naturally she expects me to comply by occasionally having her kids over, which is really really tough considering the current circumstances and behavior of her daughter.
The unfortunate result is that I often end up having our babysitter watch my son while I go to school and study, even though HE is not the problem.... I can easily study with him at home.
The other day, I was getting ready to drop him off at the sitter when my neighbor approached me and said "aw just let him stay at our house, he's so good and the kids are having fun playing together." I reluctantly complied against my better judgement. Sure enough, later on she asked if I could watch her kids for 2 hours the next morning. She was WAAAAAY late coming back. Normally I wouldn't care, I wouldn't even mind about the little sister that much, but for God's sake, my MCAT is in a matter of weeks! I just feel like the mom flat out doesn't get it and my son ends up paying the price when I end up sending him to the babysitter due to their shenanigans. Our babysitter is wonderful but of course like any kid, my son would rather be at his own house playing with his toys and enjoying his friends.
UGGGGGHHHHHHHHH I'm sorry if I sound like a total misanthropic b*tch, I'm a pediatric nurse for God's sake, I swear I'm not a child hater.... but this... sucks.
So I have a wonderful 7 year old boy. Naturally, since it's summer vacation, he wants plenty of time to goof off doing 7-year old boy things with his best friend, who lives two houses down from us. Fine. The little boy is lovely, and his mom and I are good friends. Meanwhile, I'm studying for my upcoming MCAT retake.
Enter: the best friend's 5 year old sister.
Picture a kid that would make Super Nanny crap her pants. Picture a kid whose baseline is high-pitched hysterical screaming, who stomps popsicles into the carpet for entertainment, who has an affinity for climbing furniture and flushing various objects down the toilet, who has taken a @#$%! dump in the community pool not once but twice in the past two weeks. Who follows you around non-stop demanding various complex snacks (at risk of a high-decibal meltdown if you don't comply), tattles on the other kids nonstop about the most inane nothingness imagineable, follows you around with such gusto that she thinks nothing of busting through the door when you're on the throne...... the list goes on.
The boys will be playing outside minding their own business, when she'll randomly lose interest in whatever the other kids are doing and wander into our house. Most of the time I can grab her a glass of water or whatever it is she's after and re-direct her outside, but even this becomes a time sink when it's every half hour. My son is a really well behaved kid, I know I'm probably biased, but he really is a polite and tidy child who is even tempered and very drama-free. I have explained to him that "mommy has a big test" and until it's over, there are going to be times when he won't be able to have kids over.. but honestly, I wouldn't mind it if he had SOME kids over... it's just that the aforementioned ahem...challenging child tends to come with the neighborhood crew, and I don't have the heart to exclude her nor tell her mom that her kid is unmanageble and can't come over when the other kids are over. I've tried hinting and it flat out hasn't worked. To complicate matters, my son sometimes wants to go over to their house, which is fine with me, and as far as I know, fine with the other mom.... but naturally she expects me to comply by occasionally having her kids over, which is really really tough considering the current circumstances and behavior of her daughter.
The unfortunate result is that I often end up having our babysitter watch my son while I go to school and study, even though HE is not the problem.... I can easily study with him at home.
The other day, I was getting ready to drop him off at the sitter when my neighbor approached me and said "aw just let him stay at our house, he's so good and the kids are having fun playing together." I reluctantly complied against my better judgement. Sure enough, later on she asked if I could watch her kids for 2 hours the next morning. She was WAAAAAY late coming back. Normally I wouldn't care, I wouldn't even mind about the little sister that much, but for God's sake, my MCAT is in a matter of weeks! I just feel like the mom flat out doesn't get it and my son ends up paying the price when I end up sending him to the babysitter due to their shenanigans. Our babysitter is wonderful but of course like any kid, my son would rather be at his own house playing with his toys and enjoying his friends.
UGGGGGHHHHHHHHH I'm sorry if I sound like a total misanthropic b*tch, I'm a pediatric nurse for God's sake, I swear I'm not a child hater.... but this... sucks.