•••quote:•••Originally posted by conmantlc:
•Hey all, those of you with boyfriends, girlfriends, significant others, etc., are you moving to school with them? What are your thoughts about this. One school of thought says that partners are a distraction and a burden while studying for something, and the other says that a partner can be a great support when things are rough at school. My girlfriend of 2+ years is staying here for now, to stay with her current job and apartment. But I will miss her alot, is anyone going through similar situations? Its a big commitment to move to another state and start a whole new life with someone who is going to be working their ass off in school. Anyway, just a thought to kick off some ideas. Doc Josh, see you at CCOM!•••••I wish I was moving with my boyfriend (or him with me) but I got into TUCOM, while he got into Ohio State. So, I'm preparing for having HUGE long distant bills and an occasional flight here and there. Actually, for the past three years, we were inseperable. We had the same major and minor, and took almost every class together. I can say from experience that while you will be missing the constant support, company, and love, it will probably be better in that you can focus on what you need to do. My grades suffered as an undergrad, because I'm the type that has to STUDY, while he is the type that gets the info during lecture, and reads over his notes the night before the exam as a refresher! So, I know how hard it is to concentrate and make time for studying when the love of your life is sitting across the table from you. Good luck in your future endeavors, and if you decide to have your GF come live with you, then GREAT!
Just don't be too upset about not being with her at the moment, cause the more you study, the better you will do, the better residency you will get, and the more options you will have to work where your sweetheart will be. That is the goal I am striving for right now, see??!!!
AS for wanting to get started already, I'm not all that hyped up about it. I realize I have another 2 1/2 months with my honey, and the thought of saying goodbye to him is just unbearable, so I'm trying to make the best of our time together, and forget about Aug. 1st, when I'll have to move away! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="frown.gif" />