Whichever one you decide you want more will be more competitive.
Sucks, but that's the way life is. If you don't belive me, take a look at which line at the grocery store moves faster. I promise, it'll be the one you're not in.
I like that one
...good thing that dating is different - getting her to go out with you is competitive in one case, while breaking free of her is comp. in another.
(just kidding ) Pick what you like better or else keeping a happy smile for the rest of your life could become a challange.
Whichever one you decide you want more will be more competitive.
Sucks, but that's the way life is. If you don't belive me, take a look at which line at the grocery store moves faster. I promise, it'll be the one you're not in.