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To the OP:
You got into a US MEDICAL SCHOOL... getting into any US med. school is an impressive accomplishment... therefore your smart; smart enough to figure out which is worth more to you-- to go to the school you want to, or to make your mom happy-- on your own. Moreover, you seem to have already decided to go to the cheaper school you are happier with, a very wise choice. So, IMO, you are now just whining, complaining the world isn't perfect. If you can't handle your mom's nagging, don't go home for the holidays; if you can't deal with skipping a holiday family visit, she must not be that annoying of a parent, so deal with her. Tough? Thats life. From experience, I'd think not going home for a holiday would be a good idea. Overprotective (i.e., asian) mom's hate not seeing/speaking with their 'little babies.' If every time she nags, you don't see her for a couple months, she'll probably stop-- then again, I don't know you mom;you ought to be the better judge. Telling you to 'grow some' might have been harsh, you seem to have made a decision, and are presumably (based on the theory that getting into med. school means you're not a total idiot) are gonna act on it, but I think you need to grow up, and quit trying to evoke sympathy, cause thats all you seem to be doing. OR maybe this thread should be moved from the premedical/medical forums to the 'Psychology' boards.
HStudent says: "Become a psychologist, cause deep down, you just wanna have sex with yo mamma."
This is the proper section for you- http://forums.studentdoctor.net/forumdisplay.php?f=420
In any case, that was the point I was getting at. The OP HAS tried anything he could in his limits to stop the verbal abuse from his mother, so what else can he do to 'man up'? Many of the readers here are assuming the OP is complaining but isn't doing anything. That is NOT the case (this is why we should read all of the OP's original post + other posts he has). The OP has done everything in his power to stop the ordeal, and clearly nothing has worked because, and excuse the generalization, Asian moms are stubborn. This is why he'll probably have to be patient until time wears out the issue and he moves on in the future.