Hello, Im a freshman doing pre-med at a university and I am head over heels for a girl that I met a few years ago. I dont want to get married until she is done with her bachelor's but a lot of people have been telling me that I should wait until AFTER medical school or either my marriage will fail or my dream of becoming a doctor will be interrupted by a child. Is there any hope becuause I really dont want to wait until after marriage. She wants to be a dentist and we both want to go to graduate school close together. I want to go to UT Southwestern and she wants to go to the Baylor College of Dentistry which are ten minutes away from each other. Any advice on what we should do?