Well, it's really not recommended to actually put Qtips into your ear canal not only because you could hurt the delicate ear canal skin and eardrum (which you seem to be careful about), but because it ends up pushing the wax further in where it can't come out on its own. I have seen this happen to a person who, over time, ended up packing the wax in so tight, it was better than the best earplug on the market (same amount of hearing blockage as if they had no ear canal at all). It probably was somewhat painful having it removed by an ENT too, because there was a lot and it had hardened. So if you really, really can't resist the Q-tip, try to stick to using it only on the very outer edge of the ear canal.