Yeah I'm in one of the states that only allow 3 failures, I've looked at this and I would be able to practice in 26 states plus DC if I were to pass the 4th time. I guess, if your state is one of the states that only allow so many attempts, when you go past those attempts, they say " Well, we wouldn't be able to give him a residency if nobody else did , so may as well dismiss him" but I'm just speculating , I don't know how that works.
Also it doesn't matter if the state your medical school is in would not grant you a license for the number of attempts you have made. You need the medical school to give you an MD/DO and then you would just apply for residency in another state. Most students do not stay at their institution on average (some schools many might in some specialties, I digress) or even their state for residency. Residency is a regional game, most stay in the same region of the country, there are factors on the applicant and the program side that favor this but it is also not a rule, plenty of people go cross country.
Fact is, if you are not at ALL picky about what specialty or where, and you can pass this damn test on your 4th time, and you do well in clerkships and get good LORs (so much of that is likeability, I swear to God, and my sense is you are), I think you can be a practicing doctor and do fine.
Step 1 horror stories and comebacks abound, truly.
I can't speak for you, but I would take the damn thing until someone stopped me.
I'm not sure what went into prep for the other attempts. It's not unheard of for someone to take a gap YEAR to study for the damn thing. That's up to the school, and I certainly can't recommend any gaps in training in general, but my point is that while I would continue to take the steps, with a very tiny window of attempts left I would throw everything at the last one.
I have written posts on Step 1 and lifestyle recs, but I'll spare you by boiling it down to two things: you have to know yourself. Exactly how you actually work, your weaknesses, and how to work around them. And the test. Gotta game the test. If I needed to see a learning specialist and go through 2 weeks of intensive neuropsychiatric testing etc etc, get accommodations, take legally prescribed drugs - trials after trials of cocktails if needed to find a magic bullet - I would do that.
My next post I might talk about various medical conditions and the dramatic difference treatment can make on test scores. Like miraculous.
I think you can do this. I don't know if the school will let you. I don't know if you'll get all the things together to get the souffle to rise. But I have total faith in you if these variables are maximized. No one makes it this far and gets this close that can't do it under the right circumstances.