My wife is in a panic because I have not told my new program that she is due to give birth in mid-July. We are in Texas now and will be relocating to a different state in which she will have the baby. We have no family anywhere near and already have two small children, which I need to be with while she is in the hospital. I do not think it is a big deal to tell them immediately but she is begging that I get a second opinion from other residents. Also, what is the appropriate way to go about this?????????