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We seem to have deviated quite a bit from the OP's original question, and the discussion is getting a bit heated. Can we try to keep our responses a bit more civil and try to address the OP's concern:
Thanks.
As I read the latest MD vs. PA thread, I realized the real reason I cannot make up my mind between the two is that deep down, I'm worried that by choosing the MD route, I'll be making my chances of having a family that much more unlikely. Perhaps I'm being a bit of an alarmist but at my age, you have to wonder about this kind of thing.
I will be 33 when I enroll in med school in the fall and about 41 when I'm done with it all. As you know, fertility starts really dropping at 35 and takes a real nose dive after 40. I wonder if I would have the time during medical school to actually meet someone, date, get married, and start a family. I mean, how easy is it to actually date when you're busy 80 hours a week? I already see my dates' eyes glaze over when I mention I want to go to med school. It's actually quite interesting to watch them - first they take a big breath, and then the eye glaze. oh well. I imagine that women don't react that way when the guys they are dating say they want to go to med school. Just my guess, of course.
Many women with kids have answered questions about having kids while in med school. Usually, however, those are women who are married already or who already have children. But what about those of us who are older, in our 30's, who don't have a spouse or children?
Do any of you women in your 30's wonder have any thoughts on this?
Thanks.