Hi everyone thanks for all the tips!
Interview went really well.
I ended up dressing semi-formal from head to toe (blouse, dress pants, and leather shoes) just to get me into the mindset. I didn't want to add a blazer because I get extremely sweaty when nervous LOL
Added textbooks and a lamp light in front of me so I could be seen without problem. Sat in my dining room with a nothing but a white wall and white curtains in the back. Also disconnected all the house phones and had my dog stay in a room upstairs with a family member. Made sure to eliminate as many distractions as possible.
However, I had one minor slightly horrible hiccup... my webcam was rotated incorrectly so I was basically sideways the whole interview (I turned my tablet at the beginning and end for introductions and goodbyes, so hopefully that didn't hurt me TOO much). I'm really upset about that though because I did a test run with a friend to make sure everything would be okay but **** happens so #1 tip is to stay cool in these type of situations and make sure your discussion with the POI stands out more than a technical difficulty.
Other tips I can add
- take pauses between sentences. it's easy to get nervous and start to ramble, especially on the first question, but it's better to pause than say Umm or look up at the ceiling.
- Have a class of water next to you. my mouth gets really dry in these type of situations so it made me feel more comfortable knowing that I could reach for a drink if I needed to.
- BREATHE seriously
- don't be a robot! yes i got really nervous at first but I was able to calm down quickly and keep my cool. remember that your POI, no matter how amazing and respectable they are, are still human! they expect you to be human as well. have a thoughtful and honest discussion with them.
- this should go without saying but HAVE QUESTIONS READY! unfortunately we almost ran over time (or maybe fortunately since that may mean we had a good time speaking with each other), so I was only able to ask one 2-part question, but you want this to be your chance to interview the person. and make sure your questions are NOT yes/no questions. you want this to be open-ended to continue a discussion.
I hope that helps anyone who needs it