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Full disclosure, I just matched and haven't been through residency yet - I fully realize I'm likely wrong on all sorts of levels...but just had an interesting discussion with a friend that some may find helpful...
I had an interesting conversation with a buddy who matched, but at a place further down his rank list. His excitement for matching was almost dwarfed by his disappointment of falling in love with his #1 and #2 spot, only to end up somewhere else. I couldn't believe it. I thought about hitting him upside the head to smack some sense in him to be grateful that he matched! But we ended up chatting for a while and in the end, he ended up feeling good and was thrilled with matching. I hope no one else is feeling this way, it's more than a privilege to match anywhere, but in case you are...here are some things that were discussed that helped change his mind, and some random other stuff we talked about...
1. you are now matched to this program, you have no other option, stop wishfully thinking about what can't be
2. you are still going to become an OMFS, the career you've dreamt about for 4 long years, its happening, you've made it into residency!
3. the program isn't full scope enough for you? - all that fancy full scope stuff often requires a fellowship anyway, and you can do that out of any residency
4. the program is more full scope than you want? - take this amazing chance to expand your surgical skill and all the knowledge that comes with it
5. the program doesn't do enough implants? - an attending at our school become the largest volume implant clinic in our area and had nearly 0 implant training during his residency (long time ago) - but dedicated himself to continually learning
6. the program doesn't do cosmetics? - do you really want to be trying a bunch of cosmetics without a fellowship on the patient base that can afford cosmetic cases? sounds risky
7. the program isn't in the area you want? - the inside of the hospital is pretty standard throughout the country
8. the program isn't close enough to your spouses family? - uh is that a bad thing?
9. the call schedule is more than you wanted? - really? such a great opportunity to see more and learn more
10. the call schedule is lighter than you wanted? - again, really?
11. you don't jive as well with the residents? - great opportunity to learn the important skill of working with people different than you
12. you don't jive as well with the attendings? - my experience is lots of attendings speak the same language - hard work, be responsible, be prepared, and have a willingness to be corrected
It seemed that every rock we turned over there was another thing like this. The bottom line, like so many of us have heard - the best residency in the country is the one you get into.
Its not all about where you go
Its vastly more important HOW you go about your time there
I had an interesting conversation with a buddy who matched, but at a place further down his rank list. His excitement for matching was almost dwarfed by his disappointment of falling in love with his #1 and #2 spot, only to end up somewhere else. I couldn't believe it. I thought about hitting him upside the head to smack some sense in him to be grateful that he matched! But we ended up chatting for a while and in the end, he ended up feeling good and was thrilled with matching. I hope no one else is feeling this way, it's more than a privilege to match anywhere, but in case you are...here are some things that were discussed that helped change his mind, and some random other stuff we talked about...
1. you are now matched to this program, you have no other option, stop wishfully thinking about what can't be
2. you are still going to become an OMFS, the career you've dreamt about for 4 long years, its happening, you've made it into residency!
3. the program isn't full scope enough for you? - all that fancy full scope stuff often requires a fellowship anyway, and you can do that out of any residency
4. the program is more full scope than you want? - take this amazing chance to expand your surgical skill and all the knowledge that comes with it
5. the program doesn't do enough implants? - an attending at our school become the largest volume implant clinic in our area and had nearly 0 implant training during his residency (long time ago) - but dedicated himself to continually learning
6. the program doesn't do cosmetics? - do you really want to be trying a bunch of cosmetics without a fellowship on the patient base that can afford cosmetic cases? sounds risky
7. the program isn't in the area you want? - the inside of the hospital is pretty standard throughout the country
8. the program isn't close enough to your spouses family? - uh is that a bad thing?
9. the call schedule is more than you wanted? - really? such a great opportunity to see more and learn more
10. the call schedule is lighter than you wanted? - again, really?
11. you don't jive as well with the residents? - great opportunity to learn the important skill of working with people different than you
12. you don't jive as well with the attendings? - my experience is lots of attendings speak the same language - hard work, be responsible, be prepared, and have a willingness to be corrected
It seemed that every rock we turned over there was another thing like this. The bottom line, like so many of us have heard - the best residency in the country is the one you get into.
Its not all about where you go
Its vastly more important HOW you go about your time there