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I plan on applying to start on in 2018. "IF" i get in .... Mine will be 8 and 5. So how old were your kids when you started Med school? Residency?
It totally depends on your school. I have someone in my class who I only see for mandatory sessions. Other than that, he's watching the recorded lectures at home. That will obviously change in 3rd year, but for now he sees them a lot.How much time on average did you see your children each day? I realize that by going to medical school you are sacrificing time with kids but my question is how much? I have a 7 year old and an 11 year old. Just wondering how people with kids do it. I will be applying next year.
How much time on average did you see your children each day? I realize that by going to medical school you are sacrificing time with kids but my question is how much? I have a 7 year old and an 11 year old. Just wondering how people with kids do it. I will be applying next year.
Every day. I treated medical school like work. After classes ended, I came home and we all had dinner together. After dinner, I went to the library. Every week, I had "daddy and me" time with each girl (I have all girls) individually. We would go to starbucks or the diner and I would have a coffee and they a milk and I would let them direct the conversation. Sometime they would have a lot to say and other times they just wanted to color and have my company but they had my exclusive attention. It was something they each looked forward to it. To this day, they still want their "daddy and me" time and are always asking for it. Even my 15 year old enjoys it.
Since money was tight, we would do things at the public library together. Lego club was great time. Parks, walks, etc. it helps with the decompression of the brain
If I get in this cycle, my son will be 24, almost 25 (and.... he's a premed now too; funny that )
Me too! 3 and 1 next year when I startIf I get in this cycle they will turn 3 and 1 shortly after I start.
I hope this isn't too much of a thread hijack, but did you/do you plan to discuss parenthood in your apps or during interviews? For those of you that did, how was that received?
Specifically, I'm thinking in the context of essays that ask how you will contribute to the diversity of the class (as opposed to woe is me, my bad grades are my kids' fault). I think dealing with kids and parenthood is a valuable diversity factor, but it doesn't matter what I think. How have your experiences been?
To answer the OP, if I get in next cycle, three under 5.