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fab4fan said:Wrong again. I said that the issue could be addressed better in a long-term physician/pt relationship, where the doc gets to know the pt.
Perhaps I'm having trouble comping up with specifics because we're not talking about a specific pt. situation. You can try approaching it by talking about how the extra weight affects the pt health. You can talk about how it limits them socially. Try to find something that is important to the pt that can be incorporated as a motivator to lose weight.
Persistence doesn't equal meanness, but there are some who have posted remarks that lead me to think they would be less than patient with this patient population. To say I am prejudiced is just laughable; there are indeed some patients that really bother me, but overweight people do not.
mouse, the option of letting things lie would only be if all other measures have been tried and rejected. I don't think it's much different from working with people with addiction disorders. Some will get well on their own, some will get well with varying degrees of health, and some won't get well no matter what you do--they're just not ready.
I'm just very suspicious of people who post hurtful remarks and other detritus about overweight patients, then turn around and say they feel they could provide compassionate care. I don't see them as lowly creatures; I see them as people who for whatever reason are obese and are looking for help. The pts who come in for RNY--I consider them very brave. That surgery is life changing and quite demanding in terms of life-style changes.
I think it's important to ask the pt why he thinks he's gotten overweight. Ask the pt if anything has worked in the past; if so, what. It's such a mixture of medical and psychological issues, so definitely get psych involved.
Perhaps it was the initial tone that made it hard for me to express appropriately how I felt. In any case, I enjoyed discussing this with you, anon-y-mouse.
Please read MissMuffet's WONDERFUL response to what I was asking. Thanks, MM. I think the "you'd be doing it for my sake / children's sake / etc." could theoretically work really well. I am quite a proactive person, and I want to instill that in patients. I am very much a "what can we do, now that all the damage has been done?"-type of person. Given that these people are already super overweight, how can one convince them that they CAN get slimmer... that their burden *isn't* insurmountable? I am very interested in these psychological approaches. Thanks for the contributions.