I totally hear you, and trust me, if i were going into this thinking im gonna work 3 six-hour days/wk, it would be time to consider a different career. But Im just thinking, im not the only one out there with a spouse who works, and trust me i care about health insurance, im not intersted in some HMO that i have to pay for myself, but if you get covered under your husband/wifes plan, then you dont have that "obligation" to work full time, and sure youre gonna take major pay cuts, but for some people, for a few years (say, if you "time" motherhood correctly and your kids are all either in day care, preschool or early elementary school, cant stay home alone, and YOUD rather be home to greet them than hire a nanny) its doable. then you go back and find a full time (albeit not as prestigious - youre not becoming an associate professor for the x you put in at home) position when the time is right. Im not saying its THE way to do things, Im just saying that it IS a viable option. (Esp. if you live in an urban center where there ARE more job opportunities - NY, LA, DC, Boston, etc)