My boyfriend of 2 yrs recently proposed, and we're hoping to make it through med school together and get married after I finish my 4th year (my parents have issues with us getting married in the middle... I'll be going to med school straight out of college). For all you guys currently in school, what have you seen as far as serious relationships surviving? I keep telling my fiance how hard the next 4 years are going to be for us, and how stressed things will be, and how little time we'll have together even with him moving in with me, but I don't think he really understands. I have a feeling he thinks that it can't be much harder than spending 4 years of college in a relationship. Is there a book or website available for significant others of students in med school to help them understand and get an idea of what we'll be going through? Thanks!