The best way to learn stats is to get a data set that interests you at least somewhat and immerse yourself in it. Try out new approaches to data analyses just for the sheer fun of it. Make up hypotheses and test them. Become best friends with your local statistical consultant. Go to stats workshops. Read good stats books - Tabachnic & Fidell, Stevenson are my favourite. In my humble opinion, if you are scared of stats you shouldn't be in psych.